Hole-Hearted

I gave you my whole heart,

Something I swore I'd never share;

and you took it gladly,

and even acted like you cared.

I shared my whole soul

with all my dirty truths and shame,

and you took it all in

and eased all of my doubts and pains.

I offered my whole life,

Everything I am or could be,

and you slipped on my ring

and you were all that I could see.

Until death do us part,

nothing would ever change my love.

It never wavered once,

I even asked my mom above.

I don't know what went wrong.

I feel like I've gone quite insane,

but I know without you,

I will never be whole again.

This one makes me cringe. I know it isn't good, but it wanted out, and my mind was doing the best it could in full survival mode. I hope one day to polish it up and make it what I hoped it would be. How many things could I say that about in my life?

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